Sunday, 19 April 2009

• Back Together

  Please, please somebody help me. My best friend (lets call her Jasmine) is back together with her dirtbag boyfriend and I don't know know what to do.
  They went out for few months last year.(Which his friends told me was a record for him.*rolls eyes*)When they broke up(Which was under very sour conditions. He had gave her his IM password and talked to girl on his IM(Ella) who got real pissed when Jazz told her she was going out with the Evil BF and later I pretended I was the said BF and she said she hated him 'cause he told her that he loved her and then went out with someone else), she was totally devastated. Depressed for months. She's usually a very energetic and bubbly girl, but she totally withdrew from everyday life. Me, and the rest of our gang (Sandra, Mel, and Dessie) kept close watch on her at all times. Just in case, you know. Mel was at her after-school courses, and we kept organizing after school get togethers and calling her frequently and stuff. It took her months to get over it. And even then she was kind of weird. But now EBF(Evil Boyfriend) and his best friend seem to have totally brainwashed her into believing that EBF just told Ella that he loved her to pull a prank on her(Quite a cold-hearted prank) and that he always loved her. Somehow Jasmine seems to have forgotten that he called her a "heartless witch" after the break-up. That he siad "all her tears are fake".That even when he asked her out the second time, even though he told her to take her time to think it over, he couldn't wait a friggin for her answer without telling her to "forget about what I said yesterday. If you're gonna be such a diva, you can screw it".And yet she still accepted to go out with him.. OK, last time I checked;
  

  • If you love somebody, you wait for a lifetime(in any case, you could at least a few days)
  • You don't tell someone you love to "screw it" is up with that?
  • You could tell it to her face instead of making the poor BFFL(me) pass it on.

   He's such a bastard. He just makes me wanna . But I don't want to keep talking about my BFFL's BF in a bad way.(not that either of them doesn't know exactly how I feel about the whole thing.)But I think she's making a big mistake and I don't know if we can help her out like last time if something like that happens again. It's almost summer break,, and theres some camp things starting in about a month that there gonna send her to. I'm worried that she might do something to hurt herself. She kept carving his name into her arm during theri previous relationship and after their breakup. I just don't know what to do.What would you do?If you were Jasmine , would you take him back?
  

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